Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online


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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online With the full disclosure that I used to work for the publisher of Far from the Tree and spent a lot of time help

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online I have been disabled all my life I have cerebral palsy which means that at this point in my life I walk with two canes Though my parents sought medical attention for me eventually they embraced my paternal grandmother's Ch

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online Mind shifting excellencehttpswwwtedcomtalksandrewsoloIn 1993 Andrew Solomon was assigned by the New York Times to write about Deaf culture Most deaf children are born to hearing parents and those parents often prioritize

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online I'll be the odd reader out here on Goodreads and admit I did not like this book There were some lovely sentences some very nice connections established between ideasbut there was a lot of clunk tooOne of the disappointments for me is that the book doesn't so much document how ordinary families have dealt with unexpected horizontal identities in their children as it documents how extraordinary and wealthy families have done so except in the

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online This highly lauded and hefty book is about the experience of having a child outside the norm The author explores homosexuality his own and the lives of a variety of children who are dwarfs severely disabled schizophrenic deaf transgendered criminal and those with Down's Syndrome The author is a psychiatrist I found him to

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    read & download Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity Andrew Solomon ↠ 0 summary Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online When this book originally came out I thought I didn't need to read it since I'm not especially interested in having children of my own There are not even words to describe how off the mark I was about that Like the book uiet The Power of Intr

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online I'm still not sure if this was a great book or a terrible book to read while 38 weeks pregnant I didn't go looking for Far from the Tree but I came across a copy a few days ago and felt drawn to it Throughout this pregnancy my first I've felt terrified by the possibility of having a child with a serious intellec

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    Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity ( Kindle ePUB / PDF ) ☆ Andrew Solomon – PDF, Kindle & TXT Online This book can be best described as a Piping Hot Messthis book's topic bites off not only than Solomon himself can chew but

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read & download Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity Andrew Solomon ↠ 0 summary read ß PDF, DOC, TXT or eBook ↠ Andrew Solomon Heir best selves Drawing on ten years of research and interviews with than three hundred families Solomon mines the elouence of ordinary people facing extreme challengesElegantly reported by a spectacularly original and compassionate thinker Far from the Tree explores how people who love each other must struggle to accept each other a theme in every family’s lif This book can be best described as a Piping Hot Messthis book s topic bites off not only than Solomon himself can chew but than that guy who s won the Nathan s Famous Forth of July hotdog eating contest for the past six years running could chew in all six yearsRead the rest of this review at my blog

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read & download Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity Andrew Solomon ↠ 0 summary read ß PDF, DOC, TXT or eBook ↠ Andrew Solomon Andrew Solomon’s startling proposition in Far from the Tree is that being exceptional is at the core of the human condition that difference is what unites us He writes about families coping with deafness dwarfism Down's syndrome autism schizophrenia or multiple severe disabilities; with children who are prodigies who are conceived in rape who become criminals wh Mind shifting excellencehttpswwwtedcomtalksandrewsoloIn 1993 Andrew Solomon was assigned by the New York Times to write about Deaf culture Most deaf children are born to hearing parents and those parents often prioritize teaching them to function in the hearing world spending years on lipreading and spoken language precious years that could have been spent learning history maths or philosophy Many of those children stumble upon Deaf identity in adolescence setting out onto a liberating ocean of Sign as language leaving their parents behind on the shore Then a friend of Solomon s had a daughter who was a dwarf and she spent much energy on the vexed uestion of how she should bring her daughter up should she consider herself the same as everyone else only shorter should she have dwarf role models or should she investigate surgical limb lengtheningSolomon saw in these patterns arresting parallels with his own life he is both dyslexic and gay The first condition was one that his mother fixed through hard work practice training but always with a sense of this being a kind of private game between the two of them a puzzle that needed to be solved At six he was turned down by eleven schools in New York City on the grounds that he would never learn to read or write A year later he showed advanced reading skills a triumph over a neurological abnormality which unfortunately set the stage for our later struggles by making it hard to believe that we couldn t reverse the creeping evidence of another perceived abnormality my being gayAfter ten years of thorough research and interviews with over three hundred families Solomon produced this monumental and deservedly lauded book which sets out the conundrum within those families who have children in some way alien to the parents in how far do you see a condition that your child is born with or develops later one that makes her atypical as an illness that needs to be fixed and how far do you see it as an identity that needs to be accepted If you try to fix it are you rejecting the person your child is And if you don t are you condemning that child to a much tougher existence than might be necessary maybe one involving pain mental or physical or both Surely as a parent your first instinct is to protect A child may interpret even well intentioned efforts to fix him as sinister Jim Sinclair an intersex autistic person wrote When parents say I wish my child did not have autism what they re really saying is I wish the autistic child I have did not exist and I had a different non autistic child instead Read that again This is what we hear when you mourn over our existence This is what we hear when you pray for a cure This is what we know when you tell us of your fondest hopes and dreams for us that your greatest wish is that one day we will cease to be and strangers that you can love will move in behind our facesSolomon is a gifted narrator he has a felicitous knack of swift and memorable characterisation he braids together the individual human and scientific insights he is able to retain the euivalence and the moral uandaries without losing focus he has the lightest of touches sprightly without ever stepping over the boundary into over intimate flippancy He must be a congenial interviewer too never judgemental I m sure otherwise people would not lay open their lives to him as they do I rarely weep at films or books but this one brought a lump to my throat and a tear to my eye on than one of the 700 pages The most challenging chapter was the one on autism because it is such a complex phenomenon and so little understood despite its increasing incidence and recognition I found the chapter on the children born of rape very hard to get through at all had to space it out in small doses But the most affecting was the close relationship that Solomon managed to build with the parents of Dylan Klebold one of the two Columbine perpetrators As might be imagined they were ostracised by the community where they live thus having to deal with the loss of their son as well as the shock of his crime and how they had misapprehended him along with the opprobrium of their friends and the curiosity of strangers When Sue got breast cancer that for her was comic relief Resilience through sardonic humourHuman beings are amazingly resilient With the caveat that those willing to be interviewed are likely to be those who are not bitter what nevertheless roars out of these pages is a lionhearted vindication of the power of love It has to be said that love and acceptance are not the same thing love will often be there unasked unuestioned unassuming and unconscious Acceptance takes time Sometimes a very long time Those who manage best to negotiate the stormy waters are those who can find positives in their ordeal Religious faith can be helpful but it isn t a sine ua non There was at least one mother who said that if another person says to her something along the lines of God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers she ll scream Divine beings do not need to be invoked humans are uite capable of recognizing for themselves that problems and troubles can act as a crucible tempering their love into something harder and stronger The most important thing often is a belief in something bigger than one s own experience The most common form of coherence is religion but it has many other mechanisms You can believe in God in the human capacity for good in justice or simply in loveI found so much that resonated in this work and not just because I am the mother of a dyslexic gay myself Fortunately for me and for her the dyslexia was not severe Hardly a defect at all

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read & download Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity Andrew Solomon ↠ 0 summary read ß PDF, DOC, TXT or eBook ↠ Andrew Solomon O are transgender While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating the experience of difference within families is universal and Solomon documents triumphs of love over prejudice in every chapterAll parenting turns on a crucial uestion to what extent should parents accept their children for who they are and to what extent they should help them become t When this book originally came out I thought I didn t need to read it since I m not especially interested in having children of my own There are not even words to describe how off the mark I was about that Like the book uiet The Power of Introverts in a World That Can t Stop Talking which purports to be able introverts but is actually about what humans need to exist happily in the world this book is ostensibly about children but is really about how humans learn to fit themselves into the world It is not a short book I ve read nothing but this title for the past two weeks and I am not a slow reader at all but the length is completely worth it Now that I ve finished it I find myself uite missing his compassionate and wise voice I don t think I have the attention span to immediately jump into his previous books but they are on the list to read in the future

  • Hardcover
  • 962
  • Far from the Tree Parents Children and the Search for Identity
  • Andrew Solomon
  • English
  • 22 May 2018
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